Behind most exceptional residences lies the same quiet challenge: staff who need constant direction, inconsistent service standards and household operations that still require the owner's attention.
I help UHNW families and family offices in Singapore, Hong Kong and the Middle East turn these tensions into calmly coordinated household operations.
As a certified Butler, former Head Butler in Swiss luxury hospitality and UHNW Household Manager, I understand both worlds: the precision of the finest hotels and the discretion and complexity of a private home.
For suitable residences, I offer a focused one-week advisory programme on site to assess the home, refine service routines and establish standards that support the owner’s lifestyle.

MY OFFERING
How I Support Your Private Residence
ONE WEEK
Household Excellence Programme
Over one immersive week on site, I build the systems your residence needs and train your staff to run them with confidence and consistency.
Best suited for:
Exclusive private households with one or more domestic staff members
What the programme includes:
• A discreet on-site assessment
• An individual household manual
• Bespoke SOPs and reporting lines
• Creation of relevant checklists
• On-site training for your domestic staff
Duration:
7 days, with the option to extend
Delivery:
On-site at your residence
PROJECTS
Residences I Have Worked In
JOURNAL
Notes from Private Households
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ABOUT STEFAN SCHÖNING
Helping Luxury Homes Run Effortlessly
The best service is the kind nobody notices. The house simply works.
That is the standard I learned in Swiss luxury hospitality, and the one I now bring into private homes.
Many private households already have excellent people. What they need is structure, and the confidence to work independently. When that happens, the entire home becomes calmer and the family no longer has to think about how everything gets done.
A luxury home should not simply look exceptional. It should quietly give its owners the freedom to live their lives.


